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Relationship communication can be really tricky! To effectively deal with a relationship problem, advice really does need to include help with communication - even though there are likely to be other aspects of the relationship needing attention.
You may feel hurt, and struggle to understand that after frequent explanations your partner still doesn't 'get it'! You might have repeated the same thing over and over again, and now it only causes arguments.
Even when you seem to be getting through, you can often feel disappointed again later when you discover that nothing's really changed. I so hope I can help you with your relationship issues.
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You might come to the painful conclusion that - no matter how hard you try - your relationship just isn't going to work out. But don't despair - I can help you get through that difficult time too.
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You're viewing the world, other people, and yourself through a 'template'.
Your own personal template is shaped by your age, gender, culture, health, previous experiences and so on. It determines the meaning you attach to whatever's going on around you and your understanding of the words and phrases other people use.
You're likely to want to surround yourself with people who think in a similar way to you. They unconsciously confirm that your way of seeing things is the right way. The books you read, the TV programmes you watch and the music you listen to all confirm that too. You're constantly filtering out information that doesn't fit with how you see yourself, without even knowing.
Why doesn't your partner understand?
Don't forget that a word is only a symbol for what's going round in somebody's head. Your 'translation' of that symbol may not come anywhere near what the other person really meant.
For this reason, it's no wonder you and/or your partner misunderstand each other so often! And unfortunately that means you end up with a relationship problem. Advice from a professional counsellor can make all the difference, as he or she can explain and 'translate' for you both.
If you and your partner are constantly making assumptions about what each other thinks, this can really cause relationship problems.
Hop over to Part 2 for more Advice on Relationship Problems, and to find out why making assumptions might be damaging your relationship.
Part 1, Part 2