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Free relationship or couple’s compatibility quiz to test if you’re ‘a match made in heaven’

You could want to take my marriage compatibility test for fun. But, equally, you could be wondering if the two of you are really suited to each other.

Perhaps you’re having relationship issues and doubt whether you should get engaged or married.

Or, you’re early in the relationship and wondering if it’s worth investing the time and energy.

I have based the question in my free marriage compatibility test further on my professional couples counsellor experience of 24 years.

But why stop there?

What if you wake up one day next to the person you once thought the world of suddenly wishing they were someone else?

I hope this article and marriage compatibility quiz will help you begin to figure out whether you should stay together or break up.

Take my marriage compatibility test thinking carefully about your answers, and follow the links to my other articles full of detailed information, tips and relationship advice.

I promise you, you’ll discover and learn tons about yourself, your partner and your relationship.

Dating? Serious relationship? Engaged to be married? Second marriage?

No matter your relationship status, if you intend to get married, it’s best to have some idea you’re doing the right thing and that the two of you are relatively compatible.

I write “relatively” because no matter how compatible you think you are, there’s no guarantee you’ll stay married until death you do part.

Of course, as a relationship therapist, I understand that you (and perhaps your partner) want to get an idea of how compatible you really are, particularly if you’re in doubt, regardless of the reason.

You’ll want to gain a deeper insight into your partner’s personality and character traits beyond the obvious.

You’ll need to know in advance if you’ve netted yourself an incompatible partner, for whatever reason, no matter how amazing the chemistry between you.

Been in an abusive relationship before?

If you happen to have been in a toxic relationship before, you’ll be even more interested in the outcome of the marriage compatibility test, I suspect. You’ll have had a rotten time before and want to prevent it from happening again if at all possible.

If that’s you, I hope you’ll also read the following articles:

• How to know you’re in an abusive relationship
• Signs of emotional abuse you ignore at your peril

You can also view this couple’s quiz as a starting point on your journey together.

See it as a tool to learn about each other, to give your relationship the best possible chance to grow strong and healthy.

There’s no guarantee

Whatever your situation and relationship status, you’d be right to mistrust any horoscope, numerology, zodiac, name compatibility test or quiz available online.

Neither would you want to rely on astrological charts, psychic readings or dubious fairground fortune-tellers predicting your future together.

My marriage compatibility test will doubtless make you sit up and think, and, in the results, you’ll get advice on what to do next.

However, the outcome of the test doesn’t guarantee a successful match.

In your decision to stay together or break up (link), I urge you not to rely on anything other than personal responsibility for your future happiness.

How to make a hard choice

Before you answer the questions, I’d like you to watch this short video about making hard choices – it’s invaluable.

Planned the wedding?

I’ve come across couples who knew the night before their wedding that they were making a mistake all too often!

I so hope that you’re not going to be one of them.

If you’ve already planned your wedding and know you shouldn’t go through with it, it’s not too late to prevent yourself from making the biggest mistake of your life.

I know cancelling the wedding will be excruciating for all involved likely with some long-term consequences for your fiance(e) at least.

However, the damage will be less than if you step into this marriage with less than complete conviction you want to spend the rest of your life with this person.

So, that was dealing with the worst-case scenario. Let’s talk about how you can fix and save your relationship now.

Serious relationship problems?

If you doubt you should marry your fiance because of your relationship issues at the moment, a compatibility test might not be the best or only resource you need.

Start with my article on problem-solving strategies and then hop over to my signpost article on the most common relationship problems.

Now learn how to build a healthy relationship from the detailed information, tips and advice in the following articles:

• 24 expert tips for building a healthy relationship
• How to stop arguing all the time

Marriage compatibility test questions

Feel free to take my marriage compatibility test and get your results immediately after clicking the button.

There’s no need for an email address. Just scroll down to see the results.

Abusive relationship quiz

1. Does your partner constantly criticise and undermine you?
2. Is your partner emotionally and mentally abusive?
3. Are they physically abusive?
4. Have family and friends expressed concerns about your well-being in this relationship?

Please, also take my comprehensive relationship abuse test. It'll be one of the most important marriage compatibility tests you can take and save you a lifetime of misery.

In need of relationship advice?

I hope you found the above questions worthwhile whether or not you're married (yet).

Need a bit of extra help after taking my marriage compatibility test?

Talking things through with a trusted friend or loved one can be a great start.

Alternatively, you can connect with a professional, licensed therapist. For further information, see my page: Online Relationship Advice.

I think you'll also enjoy using my free Communication Tools for Couples. It's packed full of tips, detailed relationship advice and tools that can benefit you now and in the future.

See my article on the 'who, what, where and when' of getting trustworthy relationship advice for further information.

But, you need to take action! :-)

Decided to end your relationship?

Just in case you've decided you longer want to be in this relationship, I better point you in the direction of my articles on breaking up.

Because if you're going to end your relationship, I'd like you to do it with much care, consideration and compassion as you can muster.

Finally

I'm so glad you've landed on this page and hope you've taken my marriage compatibility test.

Regardless of your relationship status, I wish you all the best. I'm rooting for you to have a healthy, happy marriage or relationship - with your present partner or in the future with someone else.