If you have doubts about your relationship it's no wonder that you're looking for a marriage compatibility test or in fact anything that could help sort the muddle in your head!
You are as individual and as amazing as any star in the sky - there is no one in the world like you. You deserve to have a truly rewarding and happy relationship, with someone really special.
The question is... are you - or are you not - with that person right now
Are you really being true to yourself in this relationship?
Can you be happy in it (again), or is it time to end it?
I understand that this can be an all-consuming dilemma. As a couples therapist I know only too well how much is at stake when you have invested so much hope and energy into your relationship or marriage.
So it’s understandable that when things aren't going as smoothly as you’d like, you can end up feeling unsure about the future. That's why I set up this site with online love relationship advice.
But how do you know whether – or even when – to end your relationship? I believe I can help you with this.
Together let's just start with what is happening for you right now...
Discontent is the first necessity of progress."
You probably already know that none of these strategies are helping you to get you what you want, or letting you resolve the problems in any way!
Whether you’re feeling hurt, bored, trapped, suffocated or unsure for any other reason, the right help and advice can be hard to come by and is all too often biased. Yet your happiness, that of your partner and any children you may have all depend on the right guidance.
You deserve to be happy, and I want to help you to achieve this.
I passionately believe that with a little bit more 'know how', understanding and empathy anyone can create a better relationship. All of the information here on my website stems from that belief.
I understand that as human beings we all NEED to feel connected and cherished. My training and experience means I can be here to help you to successfully achieve this.
I am a qualified, BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) accredited and experienced couple counsellor. I have helped well over 2000 individuals and couples. I gained my qualification with the largest and most respected expert UK couple counselling organisation, RELATE.
For sure a good relationship quiz would help you understand the bigger picture. It would help you see the things you may be blind to.
A relationship test or marriage compatibility test should...
So, you just need to be sure that you are getting the right relationship compatibility test - not one devised by someone with no knowledge of, or experience in, couples therapy (like so many online tests out there!)
Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it's a thing to be achieved."
William Jennings Bryan, 41st United States Secretary of State
I know that there are masses of people who are unsure if their relationship or marriage will ever work out. Many wonder if they'll ever be happy again. Yet all too many are not willing, ready or able to go for counselling.
Perhaps you too have tried to address the problems in your relationship or marriage. Maybe you've ended up feeling unhappy and trapped and for your own reasons are not able to go to counselling. Yet I'm sure you are still searching for answers.
I can help by providing you with a 'road map' - a marriage compatibility test I personally developed using my training and experience. I can help you decide if it’s time to end your relationship or whether there is still hope of transforming it.
I know that you have the answers already deep inside of you.
I am here to give you a starting point to help you think clearly and cut through the 'clutter' in your brain (if there is any clutter of course).
I searched through several years’ worth of counselling notes to create and refine a comprehensive, simple but powerful relationship test or marriage compatibility test.
My quiz will help you by….
You'll discover - step-by-step - what is really going on in your relationship or marriage.
You'll find out whether or not the two of you really do have a chance of making it together, and why or why not.
I know that breaking up a committed relationship or marriage is so difficult and painful, whether you are the instigator or not.
It is even harder if you have children. You only have to imagine having to tell them what’s going to happen to know that it will cut right through all of your hearts. And we haven't even talked about what it is like to have another man / woman bring up your children!
Splitting up is also expensive as you may need to cover the cost of childcare, a house move resulting in two homes and cars, legal bills, maintenance payments and so on, possibly with reduced working hours.
Sadly all too often the break up is irreversible should you change your mind after all (and yes, that does happen!). Whilst it may sound harsh to talk about money, please do remember: the end of your relationship or marriage can have a massive negative impact on your finances.
Use my marriage compatibility test and you can feel totally secure that you have come to a decision with the best knowledge, awareness and understanding you have at this time.
How much is it worth to not have to go through telling your kids that their parents are splitting up? Or feeling years down the line that you've stayed for all the wrong reasons?
How much is it worth to know exactly where the problem is if you do decide to stay, so that you can begin to address it right away (and remember: the real problem may not be what you think it is!)?
Could you answer any of the following questions with a "YES"?
If you answered yes to any of those questions then I believe for sure that you could do with finding out what is standing in the way of your happiness, and I hope you will let me help you with that by way of my marriage compatibility test.
You will get a simple but powerful quiz requiring only YES or NO answers, taking you through every aspect of your relationship.
There’s no drama, no 'beating around the bush', no jargon, no 'personality' tests nor anything to do with statistics...
... this test completely focuses on the 'stuff' that you are dealing with day by day, week by week, as most frequently reported by those individuals and couples who came to see me for counselling.
This test is personal to you, your partner, your situation, your thoughts and feelings and your relationship. Nobody's looking over your shoulder - you have free rein to answer as truthfully as you dare.
You'll also find out what might be stopping you making the next step towards freedom OR true commitment (which can be freeing in itself). Those questions alone can help to move you in the right direction towards doing what you need to do if there is still a chance to save your relationship.
Just an hour and a half of your time is all you need to go through my relationship quiz (but there’s no hurry so you can take as much time to think as you like).
I have done all the hard work and designed a tick-list that takes you by the hand when making that crucial decision.
After doing the test you will know if there is hope for your relationship or marriage.
You will know where it needs 'tweaking', or if it is time to end it and why.
You can't buy happiness, but you can buy some sense of security and peace of mind about doing the right thing at the right time.
I'd hate to think you would waste your time (not money as I would quickly arrange for a refund if necessary), so here is what I would want you to know up front...
I am making it as easy as I can for you to make the right decision.
A year from now you may wish you had started today."
Karen Lamb, Author
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"A magnificent piece of work."
William Andrews, Senior Associate
International Center for Clinical Excellence
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"Before getting to the point of no-return and committing yourself, this questionnaire can help you to know your partner better. It touches on things you may never have talked about before!"
Ana Maria, Miami (FLA)
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