Time to end your relationship? Find out now...

You are as individual and as amazing as any star in the sky - there is no one in the world like you.  You deserve to have a truly rewarding and happy relationship with someone really special.

The question is... are you - or are you not - with that person right now?  Are you really being true to yourself in this relationship, can you be happy in it (again) or is it time to end it.

I understand that this can be an all-consuming dilemma.  As a couples therapist I only know too well how much there is at stake when you have invested so much hope and energy into your relationship or marriage.

Of course then, when things aren't going as smoothly as you would want and hope, it can leave you feeling unsure about the future, but...

How do you know whether to - or even when -  to end your relationship?  I might just have the answer for you.

Follow me along for a bit and let's just start with what is happening for you right now...

Do you recognise yourself in any of the following?

• You keep telling your partner what bothers you, but it makes no (lasting) difference OR...
• You suffer in silence, but have difficulties being 'nice'
  
• You keep going on and pretending all is well
• You keep promising yourself you'll do something about it and feel bad you don't
• You don't really commit, but are 'kind of' playing the game
  
• You give yourself all kinds of reasons as to why you are not doing anything about it (such as ending it or going for counselling)
  
• You ask friends, family or colleagues for advice
• You are stuck in a rut and just keep mulling over the same problems
• You are waiting for your partner to change
  
• You are spending more and more time imagining what life would be like if you were to end your relationship or marriage
• You are tempted to have or are already having an affair
• You are staying out later, coming home from work later and inventing all kinds of excuses for it
  
• You are generally trying to avoid your partner or spouse
• You are hoping your partner will finish it, because you don't know what to do or don't want to be seen as the one finishing it

None of these strategies are getting you what you want or resolve the problems in any way!

Whether you are hurt, bored, feel trapped, suffocated or unsure for any other reason - the right help and advice is hard to come by and is all too often biased.  Yet your happiness, that of your partner (assuming you still care) and, if you have children, theirs too depends on the right guidance.

Why would I care?

I passionately believe that with a little bit more 'know how', understanding and empathy anyone can have a better relationship.  All the information I provide here on my website comes from that deep belief.

All that I do is because I know that as human beings we all want, no... NEED to feel connected and cherished.  I also know that through my training and experience I can contribute to making you more successful at achieving just that.

I am a qualified, BACP Registered and experienced couple counsellor.  I have helped well over 2000 individuals and couples.

Would a relationship test help you make your decision easier?

For sure a good relationship quiz would help you get the bigger picture.  It would help you see the things you are blind to.

A relationship test should...

So, you just need to be sure that you are getting the right relationship compatibility test - not one devised by someone with no knowledge of - or experience in couples therapy (like so many online tests!)

Could I help you with my relationship test?

I know that there are many people unsure if their relationship or marriage will ever work, whether they will ever be happy again, but not willing, ready or unable to go for counselling.

Perhaps you too have tried to address the problems in your relationship or marriage, but you have ended up feeling unhappy and trapped and counselling is not an option for you.  Yet you are searching for answers.

I can help with providing you with a 'road map' - a relationship test I personally developed to help you decide if it is time to end your relationship or whether there is still hope of transforming it.

I know that you have the answers already deep inside of you.

See your relationship in a new way

You need a starting point to cut through the 'clutter' in your brain to help you think clearly.  So I trailed through several years worth of counselling notes, from which I distilled and refined a comprehensive simple but powerful relationship test to help you decide if you should end your relationship.

You can't judge what you don't know about, but my quiz will shine a light on your blind-spots (I say that without any judgement whatsoever!) to bring to your attention vital information you may not have considered before.

If you are a bit of a dreamer, my test will ensure you take off those rose-tinted glasses.
If you tend to be rather negative, my test will ensure you don't just see your glass as half-full.

My relationship test will help you decide the best way forward fast - to stay or walk away, if you have to (and that really doesn't mean you have 'failed'!).

Together we'll uncover step-by-step what is really happening in your relationship or marriage.  You'll find out whether or not the two of you stand a chance of making it together and why or why not.

Is this relationship test right for you?

Could you answer any of the following questions with a "YES"?

• Are there warning signs that your partner isn't happy?
• Is your partner pushing for more commitment than you are ready for?
• Are you worried you are not compatible - sexually, emotionally, socially, spiritually?
• Are you beginning to find out that you have very different values and beliefs?
• Have you already started to withdraw from your partner?
• Are you living like 'brother and sister' or like friends, but there's no passion?
• Does your head tell you to end, but in your heart you want it to work - or vice versa?
• Do you often feel hurt, let down, frustrated, angry or simply bored?
• Are you nevertheless wishing and hoping it could work out?
• Are you reluctant to end it because you still care for him or her?
• Do you feel guilty for considering a separation because your partner is basically a 'good' person?
  

Yep, for sure you could do with finding out what is standing in the way of your happiness.

What you get with my test...

You will get a simple but powerful quiz requiring only YES or NO answers, taking you through every aspect of your relationship.

No drama, no 'beating around the bush', no jargon, no 'personality' tests nor anything that would add to statistics...

... this test completely focuses on the 'stuff' that you are dealing with day-by-day, week-by-week, as most-frequently reported by those beautiful people - individuals and couples - who came to see me for counselling.

This test is personal to you, your partner, your situation, your thoughts and feelings and your relationship.  Nobody's looking over your shoulder - you have free rein to answer as truthfully as you dare.

You'll also find out what might be stopping you making the next step towards freedom OR true commitment (which can be freeing in itself).  Just those questions can help to shift you into gear and do what you need to do if there is still a chance to save your relationship.

Give me a couple of hours and I'll show you how to make that decision

An hour of your time is all you need to go through my relationship quiz (of course you might need some more thinking time and why hurry?).

I have done all the hard work and designed the tool that takes you by the hand in making that crucial decision.

After doing the test you will know if there is hope for your relationship or marriage and where it needs 'tweaking' or if it is time to end and why.

You can't buy happiness, but you can buy some sense of security

Breaking up a committed relationship or marriage is just so difficult and painful, whether you are the instigator or not.  It is even harder if you have children.  You only have to imagine having to tell them what is going to happen to know that it will cut right through your and their heart.  And we haven't even talked about what it is like to have another man/woman bring up your children!

• childcare
• reduced working hours
• two homes with all that you both might need, let alone want
  
• a move
  
• two cars
• maintenance
• Lawyers' bills, etc

And too often the break up is irreversible should you change your mind after-all (yes, that does happen!).  Whilst it may sound harsh to talk about money, make no mistake - the end of your relationship or marriage can have a massive (negative) impact on your finances.

By using my test you can feel totally secure in the knowledge you have come to a decision with the best knowledge, awareness and understanding you have at this time.

How much is it worth your not having to go through telling your kids that your splitting up?

Or feeling years down the line that you have stayed for all the wrong reasons?

How much is it worth to know exactly where the problem is if you decide to stay, so that you can begin to address it right away (the real problem may not be what you think it is!)?

I am right beside you to help you make your decision.

Cast-iron guarantee

100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE  If you are not 100% satisfied I will issue an immediate and full refund.  No questions asked, no hard feelings, no hassle... Just contact me, I'm right here.

$19.97

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