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   <pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 14:49:56 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 31, I don't know if I love him anymore </title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/i-dont-know-if-i-love-him-anymore.html</link>
    <description>Mary and Steve - we are 33 and 34 and have been together 13 years, on and off.  We met when we were 20, we were both party animals.  Life was fun and crazy.</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 20:24:28 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 27, Will we ever have a real relationship?</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/will-we-ever-have-a-real-relationship.html</link>
    <description>I met my boyfriend David in an online chat room for politics about 4 or 5 years ago. I was there to debate with others, he was there for that as well I</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 15:18:14 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 19, Get your ex back for Valentine's day</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/get-your-ex-back.html</link>
    <description>30 Jan 2011. Hurt, angry, stressed, you want your ex
      back. Your girl/boyfriend or partner has left and you want to win
      him/her back before Valentine's day.</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 20:22:19 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 16, What is the right thing to do? How do I know if I can trust myself?</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/what-is-the-right-thing-to-do-how-do-i-know-if-i-can-trust-myself.html</link>
    <description>I am going through a separation from my spouse after being married since 2008. I was 21 years old then and he is 8 years my senior. We have always worked</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 18:22:01 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 8, How to get over a nervous breakdown</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-get-over-a-nervous-breakdown.html</link>
    <description>22 Jan 2012. Best advice for dealing with the signs
      and symptoms and get over a nervous breakdown fast.</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 20:27:32 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 6, Overcoming overeating</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/overcoming-overeating.html</link>
    <description>5 Jan 2012. Emotional eating and overcoming
      overeating. Overeaters - stop being hard on yourself!</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 14:14:34 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 6, Stop overeating</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/stop-overeating.html</link>
    <description>5 Jan 2012. Discover why you are emotional eating.
      with top tips to stop overeating.</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 13:32:35 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jan 2, Food, depression and anxiety</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/diet-food-depression-anxiety-stress.html</link>
    <description>27 Jan 2012. Feel better with food: cut depression
      and anxiety and increase vitality.</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 19:23:07 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 26, New Year's Eve relationship advice</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship-advice-for-new-years-eve.html</link>
    <description>27 Dec 2011. Relationship advice for New Year's Eve
      when contemplating ending your relationship or marriage in 2012.</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 20:34:41 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 17, How to compromise </title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-compromise.html</link>
    <description>I am feeling at my wits end regarding my relationship with my boyfriend of nine months. It feels like we constantly argue and offend each other. Lately</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 15:20:16 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 17, internet friend</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/internet-friend.html</link>
    <description>My name is Malica I am 21 years old and my male friend is 25 years old. We both met on Facebook. We both began liking each other, did web cam conversation.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 14:44:34 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 17, Relationship advice for Christmas</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship-advice-for-Christmas.html</link>
    <description>15 December 2011. How to survive Christmas without it
      causing a relationship breakup or divorce.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 13:19:42 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Dec 6, Relationship advice guest articles</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/write-a-guest-article-with-relationship-advice.html</link>
    <description>Write a guest article around relationship advice. Are
      you an expert in your field? Be noticed on the web.</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 13:46:03 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 20, My partner is selfish, needy and attention seeking</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/my-partner-is-selfish-needy-and-attention-seeking.html</link>
    <description>Well my ex is a women I love with all my heart, we have 2 children together, 8 months and 3 years. She suffered anxiety and depression since a kid and</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 15:02:40 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 19, How can I trust an abusive partner</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-can-i-trust-an-abusive-partner.html</link>
    <description>My name is Tracey and I'm a 51 yr old attractive lady. I'm in a 3 yr relationship with a 43 yr old mummy's boy. In the beginning I thought all my dreams</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 16:01:57 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 16, How to end complicated long term relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-end-complicated-long-term-relationship.html</link>
    <description>Hi, I have been in a relationship with Steve for nearly 10 years. He is 15 yrs older than me (I'm 29 now) and we own a house together. We don't have children</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 21:04:41 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 16, My head knows, my heart is the problem</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/my-head-knows-my-heart-is-the-problem.html</link>
    <description>Dear Elly,   My husband  and I (married 11 years,  we have a 6 year old son) have been through counseling,  fighting for marriage classes and I spend quite</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 20:11:31 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 13, After 34 years of marriage, how I end it peacefully?</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/after-34-years-of-marriage-how-i-end-it-peacefully.html</link>
    <description>I am 57 yo and my wife is 53 yo. We have been married for 34 years and raised 3 children and now have 7 grandchildren. There is no history of abuse of</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 17:27:40 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Nov 4, Arguing too much</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/arguing-too-much.html</link>
    <description>Time in relationship 5 years. Have struggled to get on for 2 years. Love hate relationship from the beginning. What made things worse past 2 years was,</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 16:36:29 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Oct 27, breaking up but scared of hurting him</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/breaking-up-but-scared-of-hurting-him.html</link>
    <description>Abby's request for help with Elly's reply I have been with Kevin for 11 months. He is 32 and I'm 30. He has, from the beginning, made me feel like he really</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2011 20:35:56 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Oct 23, how to stop arguing so much?</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-stop-arguing-so-much.html</link>
    <description>April's request and Elly's advice. The problem exactly is we argue over the littlest things and can't seem to stop.  It's an everyday ordeal and it has</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 14:22:33 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Oct 23, My boyfriend has changed...for the worse.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/my-boyfriend-has-changedfor-the-worse.html</link>
    <description>Natalie's request, with Elly's relationship advice Roger absolutely swept me off my feet, he was amazing... not like anyone I had ever dated before. Caring,</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 13:48:13 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Oct 8, Husband had a child with another woman</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/husband-had-a-child-with-another-woman.html</link>
    <description>From anonymous, with Elly's reply. My husband has a child with a woman with whom he had an affair. I am 35 and my husband is 37, we have been together</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 08 Oct 2011 08:58:39 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Sep 13, Depressed and unable to get the support I need</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/depressed-and-unable-to-get-the-support-i-need.html</link>
    <description>Meg's request for help with Elly's reply. I'm 18, I just left 6th form with amazing grades. You'd think I'd be happy. But instead, my friends are giving</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2011 11:26:47 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Sep 10, Secret to a happy relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/secrets-to-happy-relationships.html</link>
    <description>4 Feb 2012. Don't leave it to chance. Discover the
      secrets and recipe for a happy marriage or long-term relationship</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2011 12:53:25 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Sep 3, Please help, I am so depressed.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/please-help-i-am-so-depressed.html</link>
    <description>Heather's request for help with Elly's reply. I feel so low lost unsure of my purpose :( I have a loving boyfriend and seem to try and get the love I'm</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 19:56:31 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Sep 2, Moving on after a sudden end of a relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/moving-on-after-a-sudden-end-of-a-relationship.html</link>
    <description>Elly's response to Anonymous Oh I can hear - and almost feel - how much you are in pain!  And you know what?  Under the circumstances I would worry about</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 14:33:42 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Sep 2, How can I move on after a sudden ending</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-can-i-move-on-after-a-sudden-ending.html</link>
    <description>Anonymous request for help with a link to Elly's reply. My partner of 5 years broke up with me about two months ago and I am still having trouble moving</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 14:31:31 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 29, Answer to looking for a way out</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/answer-to-looking-for-a-way-out.html</link>
    <description>Elly's response to Kyle I am really sorry to know of your torment, Kyle.  Unfortunately, you gave me very little information to go by.  What I do understand</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 12:03:15 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 29, I am looking for a way out</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/i-am-looking-for-a-way-out.html</link>
    <description>Kyle's request for help with a link to Elly's reply. I have lost my sexual attraction to my girlfriend.  I am always making excuses now.  However, we have</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 10:52:40 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 29, relationship with a man who has temper and foul language</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship-with-a-man-who-has-temper-and-foul-language.html</link>
    <description>Rose's request for help with Elly's reply via a link Since the start of the relationship verbal abuse has been an issue.   Although I must say at the beginning</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 10:51:45 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 29, Temper and foul language don't make a healthy relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/temper-and-foul-language-dont-make-a-healthy-relationship.html</link>
    <description>Elly's reply to Rose. Rose, I suspect that you are each have your own ways of making the other feel bad.  I am saying that completely without judgment,</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 10:18:50 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 22, My girlfriend wants her life back</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/my-girlfriend-wants-her-life-back.html</link>
    <description>Fernando's request for help.  My relationship is not the same since impregnated another woman in November 2010, but I still love my beautiful lady.  I</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2011 19:54:46 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 21, Recovering from a life filled with traumas and embarrassments</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/recovering-from-a-life-filled-with-traumas-and-embarrassments.html</link>
    <description>Elly's response to Jenitha. Jenitha, I am really sorry to know that you are feeling so terribly depressed at the moment, after these failed relationships</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 08:41:46 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 21, My life full of trauma's and embarrassements</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/my-life-full-of-traumas-and-embarrassements.html</link>
    <description>Jenitha's plea for help. Hi Mam.  I am at the edge of suicide and there is no-one to help me.  My life was filled with traumatic and embarrassing situations.</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 08:41:23 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 19, Symptoms of a minor brain injury and your relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/symptoms-of-brain-injury-and-relationships.html</link>
    <description>5 Feb 2012. Relationship advice for dealing with your
      partner's symptoms of a minor brain injury</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 16:23:56 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 19, Testimonials - counselling, coaching, consultative support</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/testimonials-counselling-coaching-consultative-support.html</link>
    <description>Testimonials from Elly's clients
      for counselling, coaching, consultative support and workshops 19 Aug 2011. Unsolicited testimonials from clients
      who came to me for relationship counselling, marriage counselling
      and other work.</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 11:23:16 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 19, Is love really all you need?  Looking for more in life.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/is-love-really-all-you-need-looking-for-more-in-life.html</link>
    <description>Marie's question and Elly's reply Can two people who are so different really sustain a healthy and satisfying relationship?  I do love my husband, but</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 09:53:37 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 19, Brain injury symptoms and your relationship</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/brain-injury-symptoms-and-your-relationship.html</link>
    <description>5 Feb 2012. What to expect as a couple when one of
      you suffers minor brain injury symptoms.</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 08:47:29 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Aug 13, What to expect in couples counselling</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship_couple_counselling.html</link>
    <description>18 Oct 2011. What to expect from
      marriage guidance, premarriage or couples counselling.
      Relationship counseling questions answered.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2011 09:02:32 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 20, Interpreting body language signs</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/interpreting-body-language.html</link>
    <description>4 Feb 2012. Discover how exactly
      alcoholism and depression go hand-in-hand, when essential
      emotional needs are not being met. 13 Oct 2011. Feel more at ease and communicate better
      by interpreting body language signs.</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2011 11:51:34 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jul 20, 10 Warning signs of alcoholism for a couple</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/10-warning-signs-of-alcholism.html</link>
    <description>5 Feb 2012. Married or in a long-term relationship?
      10 warning signs of alcoholism for you and 10 for your partner.</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2011 11:50:00 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 23, Relationship quizzes to enjoy your quality time together.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship-quizzes.html</link>
    <description>18 Oct 2011. Lots of questions
      with my relationship quizzes to an intimate evening together.</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 06:05:08 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 18, relationship problems: is it on or off</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/relationship-problems-is-it-on-or-off.html</link>
    <description>Lisa's request and Elly's reply. My partner Craig (age 30) and I, Lisa (age 31) have been having problems, because he has been away in a third world country</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 08:47:38 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 17, Depressed after the end of my relationship?</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/depressed-after-the-end-of-my-relationship.html</link>
    <description>From anonymous, followed by Elly's reply. I'm 20 years old. Last year about 12 months ago I was with my girlfriend (2 years into the relationship). I had</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 07:59:58 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 7, Natural sleep remedies and what stops you sleeping.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/natural_sleep_remedies.html</link>
    <description>4 Feb 2012. Comprehensive list of
      the best natural sleep remedies. Targeted, effective and safe aids
      to deal with insomnia.</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 07:36:15 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 4, Omega-3 side effects. The problem with fish oil.</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/omega-3-side-effects.html</link>
    <description>21 Jan 2012. Fish oil: don't take
      it until you know the omega 3 side effects: taking into account
      medication, pollutants, bad products and health issues.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 15:04:49 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 4, Sleep tips, including alternative and holistic remedies</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/sleep-tips.html</link>
    <description>25 Sept 2011. The best and most
      unusual sleep tips, that quickly deal with the root cause of your
      sleep deprivation.</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 12:11:10 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>Jun 3, Hypnosis for deaf people</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/hypnosis-for-the-deaf.html</link>
    <description>15 Jan 2012. People who are hard
      of hearing, deafened or deaf can benefit equally well from
      hypnosis as hearing people</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 22:03:29 GMT</pubDate>
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    <title>May 30, Sleep Better Forever Sleep Tips</title>
    <link>http://www.professional-counselling.com/sleep-better-forever.html</link>
    <description>30 May 2010. The best sleep tips
      to stop sleep deprivation. Explains normal sleep and dreaming.
      Safe natural sleep aids.</description>
    <pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 18:11:59 GMT</pubDate>
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