Please help clear my mind - swept off my feet by someone else

From Nadia, with Elly's reply via the link.
I can't seem to be able to make a clear decision. I am 23 years old, my fiance John 28. We should be getting married in two years. However recently I met another man, who has managed to sweep me off my feet. I wasn't looking for anyone else except my boyfriend.

The emotions this man gives me are stronger then I have ever felt in my life. He lives abroad and wants me to go and join him there. Recently too my position at the company where I work as an executice technical officer has changed. I am now working longer hours, which my boyfriend doesn't agree with. He wants me to quit. So basically I have a boyfriend that I still love, but if I don't leave my work most probably our relationship won't work. On the other hand i have another man that showers me with all sorts of emotions but I have to leave everything I have worked for to join him...

I hope you can help me clear my mind. I can answer any quesetions but please help me.

My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. We have no kids. He was very caring and effoctionate. I am questioning myself why I love two men at the same time... this has been going on for the last 3 months.

I tried to distant myself from this other man but my mind constantly goes to him, my heart aches when I can't talk to him or hear his voice. I am angry that I can't control these feelings I have for this man, no one managed to literally take my heart and control it as much as he does. I love to read and do martial arts but lately I simply can't concentrate and focus on anything.

Elly's reply.