You can connect right now with a qualified counsellor/therapist for excellent personalised online relationship advice (or for any other problem).
I already provide tons of information on this site. But... it may not be enough for you. You may just want some time with a 'living, breathing' counsellor, who's available as often as you need. Someone who'll make a real effort to understand you, your situation and your particular problem(s).
You can start right now! Or, if you're finding the thought of it a bit daunting - scroll down to find out how to prepare yourself in 3 easy steps.
It's easy to get started...
Or read on to build your confidence...
I'll help you be well-prepared, step-by-step, so that you can make the best use of this opportunity in the shortest amount of time.
I'm here to increase your confidence. When you get to the bottom of this page, you'll be ready to go...
You may not be able - or want - to get face-to-face advice on all things connected with your relationship. Embarrassment, financial constraints, time pressures or geographic difficulties can also play a role in keeping you out of the counselling room.
You may even worry...
That's why I make so much information freely available on this relationship advice site. But I also know that so many people would perk up if they could freely discuss their fears, worries and problems with someone... if only they were willing to try.
I hope therefore that I've bridged the gap with BetterHelp. They make connecting with a counsellor simple, but just as professional.
Are you going to give it a go?
There's nothing quite like having the opportunity to get it all off your chest. For someone to be there for you in your hour of need. For you to feel completely accepted and to get the help and support you want.
No-one needs to know about it! You don't even have to give your real name if you don't want to.
So, no worries about shame, blame, unmentionable secrets and other stuff you've possibly kept hidden from other people because you can't even bear to think about it yourself.
And counsellors have heard it all before!
Here is what's most helpful to know when you're looking to get the best advice as soon as possible...
The best time is when you've calmed down enough to be able to explain what's happened. When you're too emotional to get your words out, you may not avail yourself of the best (online) advice for your relationship, or any other trouble.
When you're hurt, depressed, stressed, traumatised, anxious or confused and want to talk in confidence to a professional who is objective, non-judgemental and supportive.
If you're stuck and you don't know how to get back on track, the support of a counsellor or therapist can really help you to start moving forwards with your life again.
I totally understand you may find it embarrassing to talk about that. But don't worry! Every counsellor is trained and will be completely comfortable talking about sex with you to help you find a solution.
Calm and reassure yourself. I wouldn't be surprised if the very thought of going ahead with this increases your heartbeat, but that will soon subside.
Whether you're angry, stressed, anxious or depressed, BetterHelp counsellors are able to help you - in confidence and without judgement. The good news is that you can contact BetterHelp any time you feel the need (remember to wait until you've calmed down a little after a crisis though).
To start, all you need to do is to fill in the online questionnaire which takes about 10 minutes. Your answers are important and will ensure that BetterHelp can match you with the right counsellor for you. He or she will then already know a little about you when they connect with you in the online counselling room.
Take a deep breath and take your time - you have a whole week of top-quality online (relationship) counselling from a qualified counsellor (all BetterHelp experts have been vetted).
Ask yourself: how often have you wished you had someone to talk to? Someone who isn't involved, and whose intentions and expertise you could trust?
Here are some tips: