Email counselling

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Email relationship advice What would you not do to find a way forward? Here is your chance to tell me about yourself, your partner, and all that is worrying you - in confidence.

Get it off your chest, tell me what concerns you most. What would you most like to know? What if you wrote to me today?

You would have receive personal support and suggestions for a way forward possibly within just a few hours, but normally within 36 hours.

How has that problem been going on?

How long have you been walking around with this problem? How many sleepless nights has it caused you? How many arguments have you had about it? How much stress has it caused you?

I know from my clients that it took months, sometimes years, before they plugged up the courage to pick up the phone and talk to me. You can pick up the phone - see telephone counselling - but you can now write to me too and get personal and confidential support and advice.

How are you feeling right now? Depressed, sad, lonely, let down, disappointed, angry, stressed? Do you have personal or relationship problems? Why on earth would you not want to get some help with that?

What advice have you had?

What advice have other people given you? Your friends and family have a vested interest. They may tell you what they think you want to hear. They may want the outcome to be a certain way to suit themselves.

You may not necessarily have been honest with them. You may not have been able, or wanted, to tell them all the details - for whatever reason. You may have worried that they would judge you.

Here you find examples of relationship problems and questions other people have posted, followed by my advice to them, here on how to deal with depression, and ending a relationship Here are some testimonials for you.

The benefits of a personal email response

Email counselling Within 36 hours you will have personal advice on how best to deal with your problem - right in your email box. You can get a fresh perspective on your situation and the best way forward to deal with the problems.

Very soon, you:

can feel relieved, because you have taken action and done something about it
will feel less alone - 'a problem shared is a problem halved'- you have shared it with a professional -- that must be worth an extra
can rest assured that you get the best possible advice via this medium
get a fresh perspective and/or have you own hunches and feelings confirmed and supported
have a plan of action that can potentially set you free from all the worries
can again feel more relaxed, calm and positive in the knowledge that you have taken control

Would not know where to even start?

Don't worry - I have covered that one having heard it so often from my clients. Once you have paid, click 'return to seller's site' and you will be directed to a special page with my list of questions. You can easily fill out the fields that you feel apply to you and tell me more if you need to.

The cost?

Disclaimer: you will remain responsible for the choices you make, regardless of the nature of your query. I can only 'stand on the sidelines' of your situation. I won't know all there is to know having only your side of the story, particularly if you are asking me for relationship advice.

As a couple counsellor I take into consideration what my advice might mean for the other partner/spouse. If you are in acute distress, speaking to someone face-to-face is always the better option.