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North London, Carole Nyman

by Carole Nyman, Human Givens Therapist and Couples Counsellor
(East Finchley, London)

I started off counselling at Childline, where I counselled young people by telephone and later became a marriage counsellor at Relate.

My background was in law. I’ve been a solicitor and used to deal with divorces, so I know how painful that process can be.

If you are thinking now of going down that path, and if you want to do all possible to avoid that process, I would support you in that, and I can assure you that a troubled relationship really can be transformed by couples counselling.

You can discover how to turn your conflicts around and create a satisfying and lasting relationship.

Many couples find it useful to have a third party there to help you to hear each other. You can understand your relationship from different points of view, then start to notice a pattern that is unique to you and then perhaps you can start to begin to do things differently. For instance, perhaps you’ll question your beliefs you hold about each other’s actions.

If you want to help yourself to create a really good relationship, you absolutely can do this. Being outside your relationship, I can help you to do this.

Helping people to help themselves is an approach which is at the very heart of the Human Givens approach. It can take an outsider to help you to realise all the resources that are within you, because you have probably stopped noticing all your own strengths.

So –

if anxiety is controlling your life, yet you are managing despite that to carry on working and looking after your family …

if you are waking in the night worrying about your relationship and your mind is going over your problems again and again …

it may be time to seek outside help.

Fortunately, we understand more today than ever about the way the brain works and how to prevent anxiety from taking control. Research has shown the Human Givens Therapy methods to be quickly effective, so you don’t have to suffer any longer.

Please visit my website at www.carolenyman.co.uk or you can phone me on 07941 914 689

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