Infidelity warning signs
The signs of a cheating spouse or partner

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3

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You may be suspicious about your partner's behaviour because you can - or suspect you can - see the signs of infidelity.  If so, it's totally understandable if you're feeling scared and/or angry.

Your partner might deny all, whilst you know that something isn't right - there are signs you can't stop thinking about. You may have tried to deny it to yourself for a while. However, it's very likely that you're becoming increasingly distressed and worried about the meaning of all the strange behaviours or conversations.

Stick with me, because you're very likely to need someone to tell you that you're not going mad.  Oh... and I've got a great video further on in this article how to spot a liar.

Be sure to also visit my pages on Surviving Infidelity and Interpreting Body Language (see links at the end of the article), where you'll find a really interesting video clip with Dr Helen Fisher. She explains the systems in the brain which are involved with love, lust and attachment.

However, you're probably here because your relationship or marriage isn't working, so just before we continue, please do check out How to Save Your Marriage/Relationship. I'll still be here when you come back.

What are the infidelity warning signs?
- 7 things to look out for in your partner

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Nothing I can say or write will give you a definite answer and I really want you to be careful not to jump to conclusions about the signs of infidelity.  

However, a combination of the following signs that your partner is cheating are what you should be looking for. These things might indicate that your partner could possibly be having an affair...

  1. Body language (see below the link to non-verbal communication)
  2. What is said and what is left out
  3. How it is said
  4. Actions that don’t fit his or her values and beliefs
  5. Behaviour that is 'out of the ordinary'
  6. Secrecy around the use of mobile phones and computers 
  7. Unusual questions about your whereabouts (of course he or she could be planning a surprise for you, but it could also be a sign of infidelity)
  8. Unfortunately, I'm really sorry to have to point this out, but the evidence may be found by checking out your sexual health, if all was well before

Here's my latest page on the Signs of a Cheating Wife or Husband.

I know it's difficult to be confronted with the signs that might indicate you have a cheating spouse. You may have your worst fears confirmed. Because of this, I'd really love you to explore all my other pages on this website too - I've got loads of help and advice that can help you deal with it all.

Also, in case you're suffering from depression, then I'd really love to help you to do something about that now. I so don't want you to simply wait for the situation to deteriorate - it'll only get worse if you do find out that your partner is cheating.  

You deserve better, so make sure that you avoid another layer of suffering. I recommend the depression treatment downloads from HypnosisDownloads. They are a team of experts and have developed some excellent methods to help you deal with your pain and distress.

Body language and behaviour

Hop over to Part 2 for a look at the telling body language signs and behavioural patterns that might point to infidelity.

Oh... and if at any time you want to discuss this with an online expert counsellor or therapist, you can do that right from one of my pages. Just click here for Online Relationship Advice.

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3

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