Increase male libido

Low male libido and impotence

Increase male libidoMostly sex drive exists separately from impotence.  Impotence means the ability to develop and maintain an erection of a quality sufficient for sexual performance.

However, impotence can be a cause of men having low libido.  Not being able to get an erection or maintain it, can cause a huge sense of embarrassment, stress and consequent avoidance behaviour and can result in relationship problems. No surprise then that is also linked with depression (see: Signs of clinical depression).

Health problems and erectile dysfunction (impotence)

Inability to develop and/or maintain an erection can happen every now and then, for a period of time, or every now and then over a period of time.

With age testosterone levels drop (sorry and all that .. ;-) ), which may lead to a low libido in men.  40% Of men over 40 years old, and more than one in five men with erectile dysfunction have a testosterone deficiency.

It is vital that your doctor rules out any health problems, such as diabetes or heart disease.

Of course, your problems can also be the result of too much alcohol.  See if you recognise what stage you are at to discover how serious your problem may be.

Visiting your doctor/health clinic

When you visit your doctor, you will feel that much more confident if you come armed with detailed information.  It will help your doctor to decide on the best treatment/tests for your low libido and/or erectile dysfunction.

If your problem of low libido is intermittent, my page on problem solving strategies can help you to identify exactly how and when it affects you.

Ask your doctor too if any medication you are presently taking can cause low libido in men or erectile dysfunction.

No obvious cause for your low libido or impotence?

If your doctor has given you the all-clear - it is very possible that your libido will improve naturally.  Nevertheless - it is a warning sign.

You certainly won't want to become anxious about having a low libido and thereby doubling the problem.  ... I know ... of course that is easy to say.

Have a look at my page on adrenal fatigue syndrome.  You may find that there are things that you can change to improve your overall well-being.  Your partner and you can work on the changes together.  Most of all - you need to keep communicating with your partner.  He/she may well know more about you than you think, so stop avoiding/hiding! 

Consulting a psychosexual therapist

The next sensible step would be to contact a psychosexual therapist (sometimes called a sex therapist) for help in improving your physical relationship.

Can't even begin to consider that?  Skip this and go straight to hypnosis for male low libido.

The therapist will talk with you (and your partner/wife) about what is involved in increasing male libido (and what can make sex more pleasurable for your partner/wife too).

You will also be asked to set time aside for sex.  You are given tasks and ideas for you both to explore/do in the privacy of your own home.  A series of sessions will help to ensure that progress is made at a tempo that is appropriate for each one of you.

A psychosexual therapist will also be able to identify if there are underlying issues that need sorting.  He/she may be able to help you with relationship advice, offer couple counselling or refer you to a relationship/couples counsellor/therapist.

Hypnosis for male low libido

Increase male libidoHypnosis is the easiest way to successfully treat male low libido.  Why?  Sex drive is controlled by your unconscious mind, in combination with your hormone levels of course.

The result of success?  You will feel generally much more vibrant and motivated as

  • if you don't have a partner, dating will no longer be such a worry (at least not the sex part! ;-) )
  • you won't have to think how you can avoid your partner/wife
  • you no longer worry about bed time
  • you won't have to come up with another excuse
  • that sense of doom will be lifted
  • you can enjoy sex again without any worries about performance

Once you feel your libido is at a level once again that you can really enjoy sex, you will soon forget how troubled you were by it all.

Hypnosis is one of the best treatments for treating low libido and other sexual problems.

The beauty of this product is that you can do it in the comfort of your own environment, when it suits you.  It is safe, effective, excellent value for money and - very importantly - non-invasive.

You should be able to enjoy a really good sexual relationship.  Not dealing with your low libido right now will only lead to (further) conflict, unhappiness and disappointment.  You will feel frustrated and your wife/partner rejected.  Go to HynosisDownloads bundle for male sexual problems

Part 1 of How to Increase Male Libido

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Other helpful links:

Testosterone Deficiency Centre
British Association for Sexual and Marital Therapy
American Association of Sex Counsellors, Educators and Therapists
Dr Mercola - Soy causes loss of libido and erectile dysfunction
The Journal of Sexual Medicine - Persistent Sexual Side Effects of Finasteride for Male Pattern Hair Loss

News about male libido:

28 Nov 2011 - ScienceDaily: Study debunks stereotype that men think about sex all day long

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