You just want to know how to get over someone - as fast as possible! I understand.
It doesn't matter right now if the object of your affection is an ex-partner or spouse, a lover or someone you couldn't have - no judging here.
If only you could forget he or she ever existed, because... oh the pain, the pain!
Not being able to be with him or her can be 'hell' and concentrating on anything else or just enjoying yourself is so hard.
It could be that you are still part of that person's life one way or another. You may be:
He or she may be:
Whatever the circumstances - you wish you could get them out of your mind, even if you're desperately wishing they could be part of your life! It's like they're permanently camping inside your head.
If you were actually in a relationship with that person, you may or may not have had an inkling that it's was going to end. If it was a shock I'm quite sure you feel stunned and massively rejected. You could stay in bed and weep all day, wishing you could just switch off and forget!
You may be torturing yourself with thoughts about who he or she is with. Do you know them? Is he or she better looking? Are they better in bed? More intelligent? And so on...
Oh... and don't forget to read Part 3 of this article too; it has a video in which Prof Helen Fisher explains what happens in your brain when you're in love.
Maybe you never actually had a relationship with that person, but you so wish you had.
Maybe there's a good reason you can never have a relationship with him or her, because they are have rejected you, are too young, not culturally compatible, married or spoken for in any other way.
However painful and difficult, it's such a normal feeling! You are not 'off your rocker' at all. Watch the video in part 3 for an explanation and stick with me - I am going to be right here for you!
Don't want to hang around? Need fast relief? Download the 'How to get over a relationship' hypnosis MP3 or 'Unrequited love'. Don't like the sound of hypnosis? Have a look at my page FAQ About Hypnosis and Self-Hypnosis.
Realising that you have recognisable symptoms can help. You won't feel so alone in your desperate search for effective ways to get someone out of their head.
So, have a look at my list of signs and symptoms of either unrequited love or a massive crush (or indeed the start of a beautiful relationship!)
I could go on of course - so many of clients tell me all of those things and more, when they have come to me wanting to know how to get over someone. And in fact, I know them only too well myself! How many mirror your experience?
It may be too late, but if there's still a glimmer of hope have a look at my page on How to Make the Best Chance of Getting Back Together. There may still be a chance to mend your broken relationship.
If there is no time to waste, don't wait! Speak to someone - a trained online relationship counsellor - right now.
And learn how your brain is designed to focus on what you can't have in Part 2 of How to Get Over Someone...
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