Do you wake up, wishing you could roll over and feel the warmth of their body, watch their sleepy face smiling gently at you, and feel the reassurance of their arms wrapped around you?
Perhaps you've fantasised about what life would be like if the two of you could only be together still. Maybe you've tried all you can, hoped and waited, but now you're in need of a helping hand to move on with your life - and not be forever distracted by that person who seems to be 'camping' in your head.
The very fact that you’re here makes me think you’re desperate for some help - and you're in the right place :-)
My 5-Step ABC method is for you if you're unable to let go of someone you love, regardless of the circumstances of that relationship or how long ago the breakup happened.
I'm trained by the UK’s most respected relationship counselling agency, RELATE. I've developed this programme as a complete, in-depth, self-directed programme to help mend your broken heart. It's grounded in my 24 years' experience as a couple counsellor, during which time I helped to mend oh so many broken hearts.
I want you too to thrive again, and build solid foundations to help insulate you against anything that's thrown at you in the future. (BTW, I'm Dutch but I use British English spelling throughout - it's what I've learnt!) By doing this programme you'll...
Your experience of the breakup - what precisely did and didn't happen - is very personal to you. It accommodates your uniqueness! It offers all you need to personalise it as you go through the 5 Steps (in whichever order you choose) to help you overcome your pain and rid yourself of that person 'camping' in your head.
... and much more!
There are 7 Sections - an Introduction, the 5-Step Programme and a Bonus Section.
With every bite-size session or activity in every Section you'll be one step closer to your transformation.
There’s written content to learn from to increase your awareness about what's really going on for you, together with videos, writing exercises, time to reflect and much more.
Each Step contains several A, B and C sessions:
A. To increase your awareness and get to the bottom of your difficulties. You'll discover underlying patterns and how these affect your emotions and behaviours
B. Knowledge, tools and simple activities to help you banish the old and build your strength
C. Further fun activities as well as tools to help you heal and move on
I’ve also generously sprinkled the programme with additional resources.
This is a self-directed programme with access to a forum to ask questions. You complete it in your own time, step-by-step. You can even choose what you want to do first, based on what feels right to you at every stage of your recovery. No stress, no hassle. For the best results, do ensure that you actively engage with the whole programme.
It might take you a week or two to complete the course, but you have a total of 90 days' access (I promise you'll be long done by then).
If you're having trouble getting over someone who sadly has died, then I want you to know that this programme isn't specifically developed for you.
Whilst this programme is not a direct match if you're suffering from unrequited love, most of the content does apply to your situation too. I understand that your pain is very real too.
You can enrol and start the very moment it’s convenient for you. You have 60 days access to your programme.
Each of the 5 Steps is divided in easily digestible sessions. Most sessions take between 5 and 30 minutes. Further contemplation of what you’ve learnt can be done anywhere!
Only 2 sessions require more time - anything from 1 - 3 hours as you commit to and engage with the suggested actions.
In the end - you are in charge of your own recovery.
You’ll receive an email - normally delivered within a few minutes.
(Please note: Depending on your connection, your local settings and email provider, that email may take a little longer to arrive.)
The complete system is immediately available. It contains text and 'Inside-Story' sheets. There is forum to discuss the course and ask questions too.
You’ll have access to the programme for a period of 60 days, as most materials are downloadable.
Based on the most commonly encountered issues, this whole method has been designed to help you identify and move on from your own personal 'sticking points'.
There are no 'fillers'. Every angle is covered in detail and aims to create a position of stability from which you can start to move on. Your new knowledge, skills and increased resilience form the foundation of your new stability. And after you finish the course, this foundation will always be there to fall back on.
The deciding factor is your commitment and determination to make it work. Why not simply decide that you’ll truly give it your all? You'll be surprised how much you’ll learn. You’ll be ready to leave all the old stuff behind and move on with your life, feeling wiser and stronger than you might ever have imagined.
You can ask for help in the forum, comment box or contact me directly.