How to deal with depression
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Alternative treatments for depression

There are lots of alternative treatments for depression, or better ... 'things' you can do to overcome depression - with or without the help of a therapist or doctor. Alternative treatment for depression

I am so glad you are searching for information on how to deal with depression - a sure sign that you will recover sooner rather than later!

Just in case you are not sure about what exactly depression is - hop over to my depression questionnaire.  I will be here when you come back.

Depression, stress and alternative treatments

Here is a whole list of alternative treatments for depression.  How to deal with depression?  Take from the list that which appeals to you most.  Really focus on it, learn it, do it, spend time with it, go for it, commit to it, give it time.  Terms in bold mean that I have written a page on that - you'll find the links further down.

Are you feeling exhausted, stressed and/or generally 'under the weather'?  See: Adrenal fatigue symptoms and Adrenal fatigue treatment.

There may be some you really don't think are going to work for you (bear in mind that they have worked for others though).  Carefully consider each option.  There will be something that is going to help you in your particular circumstances, that fits in with your particular interests.

  • Natural depression remedies (see links below) - herbal, homeopathic, nutritional, Ayurvedic
  • Light therapy - we have become rather shy of the sun with all the warnings about cancer (see links below).  The sun is life-giving!
  • Aerobic exercise!!!  There is plenty evidence that it works - see below for link
  • Self development - getting to know and accept yourself, without judgement - taking actions that are known to increase happiness
  • Counselling: human givens therapy
  • Life coaching (see link to womens-law-of-attractions-solutions.com)
  • Accepting yourself (see link to zentactics.com)
  • Relationship counselling - when you want to know how to deal with depression - I would highly recommend relationship advice if you are unhappy in your relationship
  • Acupuncture
  • Music therapy - watch this inspiring talk by violinist Robert Gupta from the LA Philharmonic.  Robert has a special interest in music and mental health.  Enjoy that wonderful treat at the end.


  • Aromatherapy (see link to aromatherapy-natural-products.com)
  • Sleep better with natural sleep remedies
  • Writing (poetry or stories)
  • Religious practices
  • Making decisions you have been putting off 
  • Sorting out relationship problems (if you are not sure whether or not to end your relationship - use my relationship test)
  • 8 Minute Meditation to stop the stress from negative thinking - life-changing and effective
  • Meeting your essential emotional needs in balance
  • focusing on what really matters to you (link further down to GoodNewsNetwork)
  • Emotional Freedom Technique
  • Hypnosis and effective self-help techniques - a complete programme
  • Creativity - you are capable of creating an exciting project - a labour of love, using your knowledge or passion.  There is nothing more healing than really getting involved in something that is a challenge and has the potential of creating an income as well!
  • Good old self-help!  You have within you all the resources you need to cure your own depression.  Click here for the most comprehensive ebook on treating depression naturally.

If life gives you lemons - make lemonade."
Joan Collins

Treating depression with or without antidepressants

I can guess - from my experience with my clients - what you may have been through.  Of course your situation is uniquely yours, but I have some idea of what it can take to deal with depression.  I have witnessed hundreds of clients struggle and ultimately overcome their depression - mostly without medication by using alternative 'treatments'.

Actually ... often they recovered without any treatment for depression as such, other than working hard to ensure that they were meeting their essential emotional needs (see links) in balance and making the most of their 'natural' innate resources.  For example: creativity is an innate resource - often extensively and inappropriately used for worrying!  (See Artella for better use of your imagination).

However, some clients came to me already on antidepressants (mainly SSRIs).

They had consulted their doctor to find out how to deal with depression.  Their doctor may have had little time for them, limited understanding of how depression could be helped without 'happy pills' or nobody to refer them to.  The general advice your doctor has been given, at least in the UK, is to 'ideally' prescribe antidepressants and offer talking therapy at the same time.

Learn about antidepressants

I think it would help you to gain a measure of control by informing yourself about the nature of antidepressants.  You may find Peter Breggin's books very helpful and Dr Mercola's website too offers great advice - well backed up by research.

When you feel ready/well-informed - and you know how you can deal with depression by yourself - you can talk to your doctor again.  With his/her help you may be able to gradually reduce your medication, before you can stop it completely.

As a therapist I am disappointed for you, if you have started taking antidepressants and you have chosen counselling as well.  How would you know what is actually working.

I would like to think that you have found a way of how to deal with your depression.  I would hope that you feel it is your effort that is making the difference.  However, there is not telling if you have started on medication more or less at the same time as you make changes in your life and/or have therapy.

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Other people's stories and my replies

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Read here about other people's experience of dealing with depression.

Depressed and unable to get the support I need  Meg's request for help with Elly's reply.
I'm 18, I just left 6th form with amazing grades. You'd think I'd be happy. But instead, my friends are giving ...

Please help, I am so depressed.  Heather's request for help with Elly's reply.
I feel so low lost unsure of my purpose :( I have a loving boyfriend and seem to try and get the love ...

Recovering from a life filled with traumas and embarrassments  Elly's response to Jenitha.
Jenitha, I am really sorry to know that you are feeling so terribly depressed at the moment, after these failed relationships ...

My life full of trauma's and embarrassements  Jenitha's plea for help.
Hi Mam. I am at the edge of suicide and there is no-one to help me. My life was filled with traumatic and embarrassing situations....

Depressed after the end of my relationship?  From anonymous, followed by Elly's reply.
I'm 20 years old. Last year about 12 months ago I was with my girlfriend (2 years into the relationship). I ...

Worried I am going to be on antidepressants  From Stacey
I'm 31 years old, happily married with 2 gorgeous children, yet I find myself feeling surprisingly low. I've always been a happy go lucky ...

What if mental health professionals cannot help  From John, with Elly's reply.
What are the potential risks involved should mental health professionals be unable to help a client who is clinically ...

Please help me.  From Chelsea, with Elly's reply.
I'm a 18 year old college student and I'm having a rough time. I have never been completley happy, but I put up a good ...

Changing antidepressants?  Elly's reply to Jeanne. How fortunate your sister is to have such a caring sister as you, Jeanne! I am not qualified to advice on any medication and it ...

Worried about the side effects of antidepressants  I am desperately looking for advice regarding the anti-depressant medication called Leximal. My 21yr old sister has been on anti-depressants for aprox....

Yelling and screaming triggers my depression  Elly's response to Stacy. I suspect, Stacy, that anyone who feels yelled at is likely to feel upset by it. I can certainly see that you feel completely ...

How to deal with my life day to day   My name is Stacy and my age is twenty four. My high and lows are when I get pushed all the time and they just don't see anything in me.

What tiggers ...

Elly's advice for Ryan - dealing with anxiety and depression  Ryan, it seems you actually had been suffering from stress way before that apparently fateful Christmas day. There is only so much your body/mind can ...

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks  I am 30 yrs old and my name is Ryan. I work in public safety and is known as a highly sought over position. My parents moved years ago 4 hours away. I ...

Dealing with depression. Loss of drive, joy and motivation  I feel sad for the opportunities I've missed and the way I've lived my life. Here is my story about how I have come to feel so low, lacking any motivation ...

Self obsessed and trapped  Well where do I start? I have always been image conscious and driven in anything I did, but it was a few years ago when it all started to take a deep ...

My alcoholism stages and depression  From Chris.
It was a while before I even realised I was depressed. It took even longer to realise that I was an alcoholic. But the suspicion of a link ...

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Other helpful links:

Psychosomatic Medicine research evidence for exercise as a treatment for depression
Zentactics.com - for survivors of childhood abuse
Aromatherapy-natural-products.com: how to deal with depression - to help you choose the right oil for your particular depressive mood
Womens-law-of-attractions-solutions.com - for a professional's realistic approach to strategies recently popularized by The Secret, by an award winning author
Dr Mercola - on vit D and depression
Article on depression and exercise

News:

9 Dec 2011 - Mail Online: Leon McKenzie - I tried to end it all ...
17 Aug - Reuters: depression amongst athletes

Well-known people who have suffered from depression:

Leon McKenzie - professional footballer
Ruby Wax

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