Bored with life?

What in life exactly are you bored with?

'Bored with life' is a pretty big statement!  I think that to find the right solution for you, we need to know exactly what we are dealing with.  So, I will help you get to the root of the problem.

I suggest we break down the problem in manageable chunks.  This increases the opportunities for finding creative solutions and taking action with the most appropriate remedies.

However, I appreciate you might be looking for a 'quick fix'.  I have included some useful downloads and a list of ideas.  Sandwiched in between, you will find some probing questions to help you find the underlying problem of being bored with life.  Try to be 'dead honest' with yourself - nobody is looking!

To stop you from leaving this page!

I have come up with an immediate solution.  I have teamed up with the massively successful HypnosisDownloads and I have chosen the latest downloads especially for you.  The tracks below will help to recruit your unconscious mind to help you get moving and excited again.  Act now ... you deserve to be able to share your talents, go on ...

Self motivation booster Motivation at work Bounce out of bed Creativity booster Achieve your potential Be a winner

What exactly is going on for you?

• Do you have hobbies or interests that you can put to good use?
  
• Do you have good relationships with other people?
• Do you consider yourself boring?
• Are you bored in your job?
• Do you generate excitement in your life?
• Do you generate new challenges? (find an opportunity by clicking the link)
  
• Are you dependent on other people to create excitement for you?
• Is it possible that you suffer from depression?  (See my page on signs of clinical depression)
  

You will feel more in control and buoyed up, when you are in the process of tackling your personal 'stuff' in a positive way.  Relying entirely on other people to create excitement in your life and to make you feel better has the potential of leaving you feeling helpless.  You know now what exactly requires your attention if you want to be in the driving seat of your life.

Lack of confidence standing in your way?

Just in case you have not been able to take full advantages of opportunities that have come your way, I have sourced a great confidence booster.

You may think that nothing has come your way.  However, I would argue that if you are lacking in confidence, you are avoiding anything that remotely looks like you have to come out of your comfort zone.

Self Confidence Trainer (Double CD)

The Self Confidence Trainer leads you step-by-step towards greater confidence and self esteem.

Is your partner the problem?

• Does your partner bore you?
• Would your partner describe you as boring?
• Could your partner be bored too?

A 'yes' to these questions requires a conversation with your partner.  If you have not talked about it, then pluck up the courage - visit my pages on 'relationship communication' and 'when everything is an argument' to make a good start.

Is your relationship at the root of the problem?

	Are you actually engaging in the relationship? How committed are you really? Has the relationship gone past it's first stage of excitement?
Are you able to deal with that inevitable change? Do you/your partner/both have sexual relationship problems? Do you need some more excitement in your sexual relationship? Is your partner actively engaging in the relationship? Are you having an affair? Do you feel stuck in the relationship? Have you been thinking about ending your marriage/relationship? If so, what is stopping you?

Several of the questions relate to you personally, requiring you to take personal responsibility for your role in the relationship.  However, if you have answered 'yes' to these questions, you and your partner need to have a conversation.

Can you identify any patterns?

• Have you felt bored before in previous relationships?
• Has that happened at a similar stage, if so?
• Does the problem of feeling bored occur in cycles?

These questions require you to think about relationship history. Our brain works by 'pattern matching'.  It compares what is happening in the here and now with a huge array of previously established patterns/templates - at an unconscious level.

My questions will help you to create a conscious awareness of what exactly you are doing.  That way you are more likely to get to the root of the problem.

If you are flummoxed by this one, do consider counselling to help you figure it out and move on to leading a more fulfilling life.  A human givens therapist is particularly trained to help you focus on your resources and meeting your essential emotional needs.

What exactly are your expectations?

We have ever increasing expectations of ourselves, our partners, and how our life should be.  However, if anyone has ever told you it was going to be easy - they lied!

Brainstorming ideas for creating more excitement

I have some great ideas for you that may just inject some energy into your life again.  some of them you can start straight away.  Some will need a little time to mull them over.  Just imagine how different life will be once you have started on a completely new project.  You will:

• have different things to think and talk about
• have new friends
• have less time for worrying
• feel excited again

Hypnosis Unwrapped - Hypnosis Training DVD (Triple DVD) The unique, world first, hypnosis workshop in your own home!

Start dating Start your very own profitable internet business.  Yes ... you may be surprised/suspicious - but you can do that. Start excercising, if you aren't already.  Lack of motivation to exercise can be sorted - follow the link to a hypnosis to HypnosisDownloads Plan a dinner party, rather than wait to be invited Change your career.  How about training in hypnotherapy? Change your career: do an hypnosis course (see left).  If you are interested in complimentary therapies: Ayurveda Pura Academy - Accredited Ayurvedic Training Organise an evening out or weekend away at www.lastminute.com Start a vegetable garden on your own or with someone else More ideas on my page: bored in your relationship

Being bored with life is so disheartening! Yet I know for sure that you have all the resources you need within you to get going and create excitement in your life.

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